The Home & Life Discovery Method
I don't look for houses. I help you find the place where you want to live your life.
Property Finder & Master Coach · Maresme · Barcelona · Costa Brava
20 questions · about 5 minutes · free
Buying a home is one of the most important decisions of your life.
Choosing well starts with knowing what you truly want. I am a Property Finder in the Maresme, Barcelona and the Costa Brava, and a Master Coach specialising in self-esteem.
I guide you with deep market knowledge and with my focus on you, so you choose from confidence, not doubt. From your first question to the day you live in your new home.
Tatiana Borgström · Registered real estate agent, AICAT no. 13283
The method in 6 steps
From knowing how you want to live to holding the keys to your home
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1
Discover
Who you are and how you want to live
It all starts with the Home & Life Discovery test, which helps you discover what you really need from your next home. Then we talk in a private Zoom session about your result, your priorities and your doubts. If we feel it’s a good fit, we start working together.
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2
Define
Which home fits that life
I prepare your Home & Life Brief: areas, property type, your must-haves and where you can be flexible. From then on you have access to your private portal, where you see every property I select for you and can adjust your search whenever you like.
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3
Align
On the outside and on the inside
On the outside, we bring together partner, family, budget, financing and the sale of your current home. On the inside, we work on what almost nobody looks at: the fears, the doubts, the beliefs that hold you back (“this isn’t for me”, “what if I get it wrong?”) and the feeling of not deserving the home you truly want. Because many purchases don’t stall for lack of houses, but because of how we feel when we choose.
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4
Find
The active search
I search the market, off-market properties and my network of professionals. I also share your search creatively and always anonymously. Each property arrives in your portal with my personal note and why I chose it, and your ratings sharpen the search week by week.
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5
Decide
Choosing with clarity, not fear
We visit together the homes that truly fit you. I analyse the price and negotiate on your behalf. And this is where my self-esteem work comes in: I help you trust your judgement, listen to what you feel in each home and decide from security, not pressure.
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6
Move
Starting your new life
I coordinate the whole process through to signing and handing over the keys. Through my Home & Life Circle I connect you with trusted professionals in cleaning, gardening, interior design, renovations and maintenance. And I stay by your side after the move, because my work ends when you feel at home.
What makes me different
What I work on that other agents don’t
Beyond searching, viewing and negotiating, I support you with what happens inside you when you choose a home. These are some of the tools of the method.
Home beliefs map
An exercise to uncover what you believe about yourself, money and what you “deserve”, and what may be holding you back without you knowing.
Mindful viewing
At every viewing, beyond square metres and condition, we capture how you feel walking in, where you picture yourself living and what feels uncomfortable.
Couple or family session
Each person defines their non-negotiables and we find what you share. Fewer arguments, more decisions.
48-hour decision
Deciding without pressure: a first reflection in the moment, a second one with a cool head, and a conversation with me before making an offer.
Negotiation preparation
The confidence to make an offer, ask for what you want and say no, without fear of “losing the house”.
Saying goodbye to your home
If you are selling to start afresh, we also close the emotional chapter, so you can sell and move forward without getting stuck.
30- and 90-day follow-up
After the move I stay by your side, supporting you as you settle into your new life and with any doubts that may come up.
My support is coaching, not therapy: we work on the confidence to decide. If at any point you need a different kind of support, I will tell you honestly.
Who it’s for
For people who want to choose well, not just fast
- Buying your first home
- Moving to a new home
- A second home by the sea
- Relocating to Spain from abroad
- Selling to start a new chapter
- Investing wisely
Shall we begin?
Take the Home & Life Discovery test and discover what you really need from your next home.